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Thursday, October 27, 2011
2:42 PM | Posted by Maria | | Edit Post
The other day Gavin and I were in the car and he asked me for a mint.
I answered kindly, "Not today, Sweetie."
Gavin, testing out his independence and authority (which he of course has very little of but that doesn't stop him from trying), demanded, "But Mom! I want a mint and you should give me one now!"
I couldn't help but chuckle as I explained to him, "Gavin, even if I was going to give you a mint, that attitude and tone of voice wouldn't be the way to get it. We aren't going to have a mint today."
"Mom?" he asked.
What, Sweetie?" I answered after taking an extra big breath.
"Please may I please have a mint?" he said with extra emphasis on the magic words he sprinkled in this time.
"I like the way you asked that time but the answer is still no." I replied.
"But, Mom! I asked nicely!" he said through the tears and frustration.
That exchange continued for another minute or two, but this is where my mind wandered. I started to think about how God, Our Father, must feel. We are His children and we ask Him for stuff all the time. We use our manners and ask nicely. When Our Father, who really truly knows what we need and what we don't, doesn't grant our request or grant it in the time frame we had hoped, we are crushed. We don't understand why he wouldn't just "give us a mint" or a baby, or whatever else we think would complete our lives in that moment.
While I could give Gavin a mint every single time he asked nicely, I could quite possibly have a 100 pound 4 year old with the best breath on the block, but that isn't doing him any favors. When children look at their parents with pleading eyes, droopy lower lip, and furrowed brow, it is heartbreaking! But knowing what is best for them in the long run makes it worthwhile. I know God is doing the same for us.
Being a parent is a hard job. Even more so for God since we ask for miracles. Gavin just asks for mints.